My husband's gles are killing my libido. I'd told him many times to switch back to contacts but no action.?

When I met my husband, he wore contacts daily n I fell for his eyes the 1st thing. After marriage, he wears gles daily. Now his eyes doesn't look like what they were anymore. They look smaller n has darkened rims n a little sunken n I believe these r the effects of the daily use of his gles. He just look so different now just becos his eyes changed. It's killing my ual appetite for him. I tried to make eye contact with him during but when I see his eyes, I had to look away. When I sit on him, he looks at me with wide eyes n a weirdo looking smile, I feel like yucks. I had to look away n imagine I was having with an ex-lover (with whom I have no contact with anymore). We have been married for 3 yrs now n have a 1 yr old baby. I'm just trying to get him to switch back to contact lenses. I've given him a money gift for last Valentine's Day becos the optical shops don't sell gift voucher. I'd specifically told him it's for his new contact lenses since he said his old lenses r old n dry out his eyes. I've reminded him several times after that to go get his contact lenses but he still is not doing anything about it. I told him he looks better without gles but have not hinted that his gles r killing my appetite for him. I used to have a crush on him before we were dating becos of his lovely eyes. But now, it's gone............. How do I get the message across that it's very important for him to stop wearing gles daily if he wants a more enthusiastic bed partner. Otherwise, I'll be staring at the ceiling or the wall when we make love imagining I'm with someone else. Another thing that makes me feel yucks is that I know he watches Japanese in his PC to get off about once a week, done in 15 mins. I know when he does it cos he would close the study room door by himself n after 15 mins go straight to shower. Sometimes I play with his PC to check on what's he watching n they r always Japanese. They r not bad actually (I sumtimes get turned on watching them too) but I still feel yucks when I know he had been using them. Partly it's becos I feel like the is my competitor n I might not even be as good looking as the gals in those X-movies. My BMI is 21 n I'm 31 years old. I tink I'm above average in looks but I still feel insecure when I know he had been using . I feel yucks about it n I also feel insecure too. What's wrong with me? Is this normal? Should I tell him to stop using ? We have once a fortnight. Is this normal? How do I get him to go n get his new contact lenses? Any1 else with similar problems as mine? My husband has a large pot belly n skinny arms so concentrating on his bod jus won't work. I fell in love with his eyes in the 1st place, not his bod. That's y I'm having a problem now that his eyes are looking very different, not so bright anymore. If this goes on longer, I think I'll become a nun before I hit menopause.